Correct me if I’m wrong, but I feel like we've all been in a situation where we've made an assumption about someone’s sexual identity. You may have assumed a straight guy’s gay or assumed a gay guy’s straight. You may have assumed that just because someone has a romantic partner, you don’t have a chance of sleeping with them. And then there’s the big one—making the assumption, based on appearance alone, that someone’s a top or a bottom.
Recently, I’ve had this strong desire to get rammed by a burly daddy. (You can blame Dirk Caber for this!) This normally wouldn't be a huge problem, but every time I start talking to a guy who physically pushes all my buttons, he reveals shortly after that he wants nothing more than to ride my dick all night long… I’m not complaining or anything! But, uh, this is what happens when you try to guess what someone’s into. There’s an initial disappointment, and occasionally, a following tinge of excitement for the other possibility.
This week we’re going to explore that phenomenon with a mini-series entitled “(Don’t) Assume The Position“. The basic gist is that I’ve taken dozens of subjects from our Manhunt Now newsletters and divided them into the following five simple categories—Bottom, Versatile Bottom, Versatile, Versatile Top and Top.
My hope is that this will crush certain preconceptions about any position, but who knows what will happen? If you’re interested in being added to any of these lists, shoot me an e-mail with your Manhunt profile name. I’ll do my best to add you over the next couple of days.
São Paulo, São Paulo, Brazil
friends, fun, husband... pretty much open to good things
Gosto de peludo, mais alto e mais pesado que eu.
ME: lawyer, all round volunteer in a pet adoption organization and happy traveler. Lean toned, workout 7 days/week, smooth and full bearded. Raised in Brazil, all italian background, AMERICAN soul.
YOU: furry AMERICAN top.
I would rather a little furry fat belly than lean smooth six pack! I like big guys. muscle bears: front of the line. NOT INTO SLIM BUILD, SKINNY....
NEG AND STD FREE - YOU SHOULD BE TOO.