Ask QC: 3-Some Perhaps?

From:  Queer Click
Dear Ask QC

Love your site and love this column!

I'm writing in cos my Boy Friend of 3 years just suggested a threesome!

Perhaps this is something that a lot of guys dream of (?), but it kinda makes me feel inadequate and intimidated. I'm 29 and he's 26, we are both fit and healthy, and although I admit he is the one who usually initiates sex, I thought things were going along fine.

I'm a bottom whilst my partner is a top and he has suggested another bottom or flexi to join us. I'm really not sure what that means cos from what I have seen in porn there is usually one guy out of the threesome either being ignored or one guy totally having his brains fucked out at both ends.

I suppose I'm just writing to find out if any readers can suggest what makes a threesome work (or not?). Is it better to choose the third person as a random or someone you know? My fear is that my Boy Friend and the 3rd person would hit it off and I would be left out in the cold?

Any advice you guys can suggest?

Yours,

3-Some Perhaps.


What say you, dear QC readers? Any advice, tips or experiences to help 3-Some Perhaps decide whether to go for it or not? Please feel free to share your own experiences and advice to help 3-Some Perhaps in the comments section.