Ask QC: I lose sexual sensation and I cum when I pee

From: Queer Click

Dear Ask QC,

I have a question for you. I may be feeling all sorts of horny and even have a hard on but if I have to go and have a bowel movement when I am done the feeling I had is gone and I lose sexual sensation and my erection. Has this happened to anyone else? Is this normal?

One other thing is that when I have not cum for some time, while I am urinating I get an urge to like push the force of the flow of pee but I then ejaculate – some times a good amount. I do get a tingly sensation and a feel good feeling when this happens but usually it’s unexpected when this happens. Is there anything wrong and can anyone advise?

Rudeen


Hi Rudeen and thanks for writing in with your questions and concerns. From your brief letter it’s difficult to determine the exact circumstances in which you describe losing your sexual sensation but it would be quite normal if you lost your erection during a bowel movement. With regard to ejaculating or semen being present during urinating we would advise that you consult with a qualified medical physician or urologist as they will be able to check you and test to determine and/or rule out any medical conditions. Although QueerClick cannot give medical advise, from our research your condition may be retrograde ejaculation. This occurs when semen, which would normally be ejaculated via the urethra, is redirected to the urinary bladder. Normally, the sphincter of the bladder contracts before ejaculation forcing the semen to exit via the urethra, the path of least resistance. When the bladder sphincter does not function properly, retrograde ejaculation may occur. Retrograde ejaculation is sometimes referred to as a “dry orgasm.” Retrograde ejaculation is one cause of male infertility although no medical treatment may be required for this it is still worth getting checked up for peace of mind. During a dry orgasm some men often notice during masturbation that they do not have semen release but there is an orgasm and another underlying cause for this phenomenon may be ejaculatory duct obstruction. As Ask QC cannot personally advise on individuals medical conditions we can, hopefully, help point you towards finding the right information and of course our readers are a wealth of information too and always willing to advise. So dear readers, what advice would you give Rudeen? Has anyone experienced either of these conditions before? If so, did you require treatment and what type was it? If you can help him in any way then please share your thoughts, advice and experiences in the comments section!