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Let’s say you want to surprise your boyfriend or fuck buddy by bottoming for the first time, but you don’t want to come off as a whiny bitch like Topher DiMaggio. To start off, you should definitely practice with a dildo beforehand. The real world isn’t like gay porn. Most people need to get used to the sensation before truly learning to enjoy it.
Here’s a tip from my personal experience! When you’re all alone, turn on a porno with someone who really turns you on as a top. Place a towel on your chair, a dollop of lube on your hole and sit with the tip of the shaft just resting against your pucker. Rock back and forth and get used to the external stimulation. Once you’re feeling more ambitious, apply more lube, straddle the dildo and slowly ease your way down onto it. DO NOT SIT ALL THE WAY DOWN. You shouldn’t be pushing back unless it feels good.
Once you’ve sufficiently achieved orgasm with the dildo inside of you on multiple occasions, you might be ready for the big leagues. Even so, it can still help to use an anal desensitizing gel, cream or spray like the horribly-named one above. Try to do some research on these! You don’t want something that’s going to make you so numb that you can’t feel pain.
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