From: Queer Click
Old Ben Franklin said, "Guests and fish begin to stink in 3 days." He was right. But here are some common sense rules for courteous couch surfing:
HELP OUT: Your host's life doesn't stop for your visit. Ask if you can help out around the house. Wash dishes, sweep, or take out the trash, even if they tell you not to bother.
CREATURE DISCOMFORTS: If you must bring wild animals (including children), consider offering to stay at a hotel. Don't look at it as giving up free lodging & compare the cost of replacing your host's valuable objects and with a hotel bill. You'll protect your friendship and peace of mind.
GRAFT: Bring your host a small gift; a CD, gourmet coffee, or a new book & even if they insist you "just bring yourself." Treat them to a meal or movie while you're there. Be sure to mail a thank you note once you return home (don't e-mail).
ROLE REVERSAL: A polite house guest reciprocates by being a good host. Invite your host to stay at your place. While hosting, extend comforts and consideration to your guests (such small gestures mean a lot). Lastly, thank and praise your host when you're a guest yourself.
Source: Amy Alkon (aka the Advice Goddess), author of a nationally syndicated column.
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