“There are only few things better than bareback ass fucking & depositing your load deep in a dude’s ass. Actually, I can’t think of anything better! Especially when that ass belongs to Aaron French.”
In case that quote isn't clear, gay porn couple Aaron French and Seth Chase love having bareback sex. Sometimes they do it together, as seen in the clip below, sometimes they do it with someone else, and sometimes they invite a third for some extra fun. In an attempt to strive for the safest experience possible—and still have the sex they want to have—their models are tested for HIV, chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, trichomoniasis, hepatitis B & hepatitis C before filming any scenes or swapping fluids with anyone onscreen.
You might be reading this and thinking, “They’re promoting bareback sex either way!”
Perhaps you’re right about that! But here’s a list of things they’re not doing—1) Flippantly tossing condoms and casually stating “No, I want you guys raw“, 2) Using derogatory slang like “condom queen” to describe anyone who doesn't share their preference for raw sex, 3) Staring at condoms with disdain and removing them midway through a scene to make a statement, 4) Implying their scenes are “better” because they’re bareback, and 5) Actively stating, in any way, that sex with a condom is inferior or may cause “suffocation“.
I’m not trying to hold up Aaron and Seth as saints, so much as illustrate that condom shaming has become a reality. While it sucks that anyone would mock another individual’s sex life, take a moment to pause and think about this… People who bareback have every right to be pissed off at the world! They’re regularly told they’re “wrong”, “diseased” or “insane” even if they’re communicating with their partners, making informed decisions, practicing monogamy and/or classified by literally none of the insults hurled in their direction.
There doesn't need to be a war against condoms. There doesn't need to be a war against bareback. If we all stopped bitching and fighting, we could agree on one thing—we all want to have fulfilling sex without fear of judgment from anyone else. We don’t want to be told how to use our own bodies, and we don’t want people making hurtful assumptions based on how we use them.
Bottom line? Don’t be a dick about your preference! And, similarly, don’t be a dick when someone tells you their preference. A simple “no thanks” or a compromise will do the trick, and ensure that everyone keeps a smile on their face and a hard dick wherever (and however) it may go.
Photo credit: Seth Chase
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