Ask QC: Sex Sans STDs

Dear QC,

So, for all you experienced LGBT peeps, here's my question that you might be able to help me out with. I've for some reason been very horny (it could be because I came out recently in my late 30's, within the last year, and my arrested horniness needs to make up for some lost time - but that's just conjecture) and have started experimenting with hook-ups. The challenge is I don't know the sex history of these dudes - if they are disease free or not. So, what advice do you guys have? Condoms for everything: oral, anal, giving, receiving? Just jerking off and kissing? What do you guys do? I want a great sex life but I don't want to catch anything and want to be comfortable while having sex.

Thanks.
S.


What advice would you give S., dear QC reader? Please feel free to share your own experiences and advice to help him in the comments section.